The importance and purpose of the Wilderness Desert (Sermon) December 15, 2013

Sermon
The Rev. Rebecca Myers, CSW
St. John’s Episcopal Church
Advent III, Year A

The wilderness and the dry land shall be glad,
the desert shall rejoice and blossom;
like the crocus it shall blossom abundantly,
and rejoice with joy and singing.

Isaiah 35:1-2

Please be seated.

You’ve heard me talk before about my mother’s family who were Italian and some of the different foods and customs I experienced growing up.  We lived in Central Pennsylvania, which was Pennsylvania German or “Dutch” culture, so my mother was delighted when she could find her favorite Italian foods.  For instance, at that time, getting fresh fennel was not all that easy.  Have you ever seen it?  It kind of looks like celery.  It tastes like licorice.  If my mother found it, we’d have it at holiday meals.  It was a great way to digest your food after a big meal.

One day in the winter, my mother found this pink/red fruit at the store and taught us to eat it.  You had to cut off the leathery skin and inside was this deep red core, almost the consistency of a peach.  It tasted so good, except for the slight problem with the little black round seeds inside it that were as hard as stones and which my mother insisted we should never swallow.  The fruit was prickly pear from the prickly pear cactus.

Today is Gaudete Sunday or Joy Sunday taken from the Latin:  “Gaudete in Domino semper” (“Rejoice in the Lord always”).  We lit a pink candle for joy.  All of our lessons tell us about the joy of restoration and about how much we are loved.  In Isaiah’s words, we hear how the people will be restored after their exile.  There is mention of wilderness and desert.

The wilderness had special resonance for the Hebrew people because of their sojourn for 40 years after they were freed from bondage in Egypt.  Even a few days in the wilderness caused some to yearn for Egypt and want to go back into bondage.  The wilderness desert is not an easy place for us to be and yet it is a necessary place if we are to be transformed and changed. 

A good steward understands the importance and purpose of wilderness desert.

Deserts are places where there is only a little water.  There is not enough water to raise the kinds of crops we see in places with more rain.  All of life needs water, so deserts are not the most hospitable places for humans, plants or creatures to live.  Wilderness deserts appear desolate and forgotten. 

Isn’t that how we feel sometimes in our lives…like God has forgotten us…like we are dried out and without life?  Maybe a relationship we relied upon has changed or ended.  Maybe our job no longer gives us joy, but we don’t know what to do next or where to go.  Maybe we feel like we are “going through the motions” in our life – nothing to look forward to and no goal in front of us.  Maybe we don’t know how we even got up this morning.  We’re like the old westerns where the man in the desert was crawling on his belly trying to get to a water source before he died.

But you see, the desert wilderness is useful and necessary….  Because we usually don’t like change nor eagerly seek it.  We want to hold on to our life as we’ve known it, even if that life is killing us – think the Exodus where the people wanted to go back into bondage rather than be out in the wilderness.

From physics, we know that we like to maintain our equilibrium, even if that balanced state is unhealthy or not good for us.  Physics tells us that change of our state requires an “unbalanced force”… one to move us to a different place.  The wilderness desert is that unbalanced force pushing us off our equilibrium.

Helen Keller said, “When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.”

A door opens into the wilderness desert, but all we can do is long for the closed door…the life we’ve left behind.  The wilderness desert gets our attention, though.  The wilderness desert gives us time to change.  You see, that’s why the people wandered in the desert for 40 years.  They couldn’t go into the promised land, because too many of them kept looking back at the closed door.  God waited until the new generation who had never known the previous life was in charge..the generation able to see the open door. People went to hear John the Baptist and to be baptized by him in the wilderness desert.  To be changed and to hear of a new day coming.  And in the Gospels, Jesus begins his ministry in the wilderness desert, after being baptized there.

Yes, we need time to grieve what is behind us.  Even if it wasn’t perfect or caused us pain, there is still grief and even fear in leaving it behind.  The wilderness desert provides that place.  When we are there, we are forced to focus on our very basic needs of water and shelter and food.  We are forced to rely upon God. There are not a lot of other distractions.  There is space to go from what was and move to what we don’t yet know.  Wilderness desert times are the bridge.

And today we hear the hope and yes even the joy.  Yes, the wilderness desert is not the easiest place to live.  And there IS LIFE THERE.  The plants and creatures adapt.  They have tough skins so they can retain moisture.  The have ways to store water and to protect their water supply…think of the Cacti.

The desert shall rejoice and blossom.  Have you seen the blossoms of the cacti?  Some of you probably have a Christmas Cactus blooming right now.  That prickly pear my family enjoyed comes from a prickly pear cactus that has a beautiful yellow flower, which then becomes the succulent, deep, red, juicy fruit. 

When we are in the wilderness desert, we are being transformed.  We are being toughened and reshaped to live in the conditions where we will go.  We are forced to stop looking at the door that has closed and turn around and look at the new door that has opened.

God is with us, providing for us and speaks this assurance:

 the desert shall rejoice and blossom;
like the crocus it shall blossom abundantly,
and rejoice with joy and singing.

Amen

This Week (December 15) at St. John’s

 Happy are they who have the God of Jacob for their help!*
whose hope is in the LORD their God; Psalm 146:4

This Third Sunday of Advent, our lessons speak of hope and coming joy.  How blessed we are when we know God is helping us.  Ponder how your life is different because of your reliance upon God.  One of the ways my life is different is that because of my reliance or even seeking God, I find Christian communities such as St. John’s.  In these communities, I am loved.  People ask me how I am.  People challenge my understanding of faith and of the world.  As a result, my faith and understanding of God is widened and is stronger.

Happy are we who have the God of Jacob for our help and Happy are we are live with each other in Christian community.  I know…it is not always easy.  We don’t like everyone and find some people a challenge.  But it is in the living together, knowing we are knit together as the Body of Christ and praying together, worshiping together and breaking bread together that God is present, not only in our building, but also in the world.

Thanks be to God for your gifts to the community of St. John’s.

Blessings as you finish your week..

Love, Rebecca

My Schedule
Next week, I will be in Corbin on Friday, December 20 and my Sabbath day will be Thursday, December 19.  Please feel free to contact me for pastoral care emergencies, however, by calling 859 -429-1659 or emailing priest-in-charge@stjohnscorbin.org.

 Flowers for Christmas: Donations for flowers to decorate for Christmas are being received until December 22.  Please place your donation in the envelope, marking whether they are in honor of or in memory of someone. You can also use the envelope to donate flowers for another date in the year.

Greening of the Church, Sunday, December 22 after the service. Pack a lunch and stay after the 11am service on Sunday, December 22 to help decorate the church for Christmas.

 Adult Forum
This week, we continue our series on end-of-life issues.  Larry Conley, Esq. will speak about legal issues regarding end-of-life.  Brian Whitehead will speak about funeral homes.

Lazarus at the Gate, an 8-week series on economic discipleship, will begin at the Adult Forum on Sunday January 5.  If you are willing to lead a session, please let Rebecca know.  The series can be accessed online through World Vision or searching on the name of the series.

Godly Play classes are available for children.  Elmer Parlier and Donna Goff will be trained soon to assist.  Training involves serving as the doorkeeper for two sessions and then being supervised as the storyteller for two sessions.  Once you are trained, a schedule will be created that fits your ability to assist. If you can assist, please let Anne Day and Dura Anne know.

Daughters of the King:  Daughters of the King will meet Wednesday, December 18, 4:30pm at the church.  Please see Shelia Phillips or Dura Anne Price for more information.

Christmas Dinner at the Barn, Wednesday, December 25, 2-4pm.  If you’d like to attend this community dinner, please see Paula Bain or June Sullivan.  

Please prayerfully consider how you will financially contribute to the work of St. John’s Church in 2014.  A big thanks to everyone who has pledged so far.  We have received 18 pledges totaling $37,800.  We expect our budget needs to be at least $47,000 for 2014.  If you have not already pledged, complete a pledge card today and place it in the offering plate to will assist with our planning for the work of St. John’s in 2014. 

 This Week at St. John’s
 Wednesday, December 18:  6pm Worship
Sunday, December 22
10am – Godly Play and Adult Forum (End-of-Life issues)
11am – Eucharist – Third Sunday of Advent
Noon – Greening of the Church

Serving Our Neighbors – See baskets in the parlor.
Everlasting Arms, Corbin’s shelter for people who are homeless is in need of men’s razors, deodorant and socks. 

  • The Food Pantry at Corbin Presbyterian Church is always in need of nonperishable food items.  Vegetables are especially appreciated.

 Help the Rotary Club Wrap Gifts for the Empty Stocking Party:  This annual event, hosted by The Rotary Club of Corbin, will be held Friday, December 20.  On Thursday evening we need lots of people to help wrap the gifts:

When:  Thursday, December 19, 6pm
Where:  Corbin High School Cafeteria
What to bring:  scissors, sharpie pen, tape and, if possible, two rolls of wrapping paper

Let Rebecca know if you will be able to help!  You can also donate supplies by Wednesday evening. 

Schedule of Services for Christmas Eve, Christmas and New Year’s Day

Tuesday, December 24:
7:00pm – Family Eucharist
11:00pm – Midnight Eucharist

Wedneday, December 25
9:00am – Morning Prayer
No Wednesday Evening Service

Sunday, December 29
10:00am – No Adult Formation
11:00am – Christmas Lessons and Carols or Morning Prayer

Wednesday, January 1
6pm – Wednesday worship

 United Thank Offering (UTO) is a ministry of the Episcopal Church for the mission of the whole church. Through United Thank Offering, men, women, and children nurture the habit of giving daily thanks to God. These prayers of thanksgiving start when we recognize and name our many daily blessings. Those who participate in UTO discover that thankfulness leads to generosity. United Thank Offering is entrusted to promote thank offerings, to receive the offerings, and to distribute the UTO monies to support mission and ministry throughout the Episcopal Church and in invited Provinces of the Anglican Communion in the developing world.

Your UTO offerings are collected twice each year.  Each time you feel thankful during your day, put some change into your box.  We will gather these gifts of gratitude in May and begin again for the November offering.

If you need a UTO box, please see Rebecca.

Reimagine the Episcopal Church:  In 2012, the General Convention created a taskforce to reimagine The Episcopal Church for the future. The members of the Taskforce want to hear the memories, hopes and dreams that people have for The Church. We are trying to reach as many people as we can over the next few months. We will use what we hear to help us shape recommendations for The Church’s structure, administration and governance. To add your memories, go online at http://reimaginetec.org/ or see Rev. Rebecca for a paper copy you can submit.  Deadline is March 4, 2014. 

Hymn Selection Group If you’d like to choose hymns for services, join this group.  You will choose hymns for an upcoming service and then meet with the entire group to confirm the final selections.  See Billy Hibbitts if you are interested. 

Would you like to write Prayers of the People?  If you are interested in writing these prayers (there are resources that can help with this task), please let Rebecca know by phone or email priest-in-charge@stjohnscorbin.org.

Are you interested in assisting with the Sunday service?  Readers, Eucharistic Ministers, Crucifers, Altar Guild Members and choir members are all important for each Sunday service.  If you’re interested in serving, please let Rebecca know by phone 859-429-1659 or priest-in-charge@stjohnscorbin.org.

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Rotary Club needs help wrapping gifts Thursday, Dec. 19, 6pm

Friends,

As you may know, I am a member of the Rotary Club in Corbin.  A major community event is the “Empty Stocking Fund.”  The party for the children will be held Friday, December 20.  On Thursday evening we need lots of people to help wrap the gifts:

When:  Thursday, December 19, 6pm
Where:  Corbin High School Cafeteria
What to bring:  scissors, sharpie pen, tape and, if possible, two rolls of wrapping paper

Let me know if you will be able to join me!

Rebecca

 

Good Stewards are Messengers of God (Sermon) December 8, 2013

Sermon
The Rev. Rebecca S. Myers, CSW
St. John’s Episcopal Church, Corbin, KY
Advent II, Year A, December 8, 2013

Merciful God, who sent your messengers the prophets to preach repentance and prepare the way for our salvation: Give us grace to heed their warnings and forsake our sins, that we may greet with joy the coming of Jesus.  Collect for Advent II

Please be seated.

Today we hear about the human messenger God sent to let people know about Jesus Christ.  Good stewards are messengers, bearing communications from God.  We are all called to be messengers of the gospel of peace.

Let’s look at some of the characteristics of a messenger….

  • John is described as a character…someone who doesn’t quite fit in with the others of his time.  He dresses funny and eats funny.  At the time, John reminded people of Elijah, the most revered prophet who was supposed to be returning.  So maybe he didn’t seem as odd to people of the times, but more exciting in the hope that he was Elijah returned.  In any event, a messenger can be someone who is unfamiliar.  
  • Also, John’s quirkiness grabbed people’s attention.  If you’re going to deliver a message, you need some way to get people’s attention.  
  • A messenger often delivers a message that radically transforms our lives.  John’s call to repent was understood to be a call to turn around from how people were behaving at the time.  To reform our lives.  That may be the toughest part of being a messenger of Jesus Christ… turning around from the way we are living and being that model.  We must first repent of our own sins and our own ways of living that are against God.   
  • A messenger must deliver the message again and again.  I don’t know about you, but I remember my parents saying in exasperation, “How many times have I told you….?”  John insists that we bear fruit worthy of repentance and not rely upon shallow claims of our connections.  
  • A messenger takes risks and may be killed in the process, which is what happens to John.  But the message is so powerful, that it must be proclaimed and Continue reading

This Week (December 8) at St. John’s

Blessed be the Lord GOD, the God of Israel, *
who alone does wondrous deeds! Psalm 72:18

God’s Time

This week I was reminded once again about God’s Time. When I worked as a social worker in hospice, I had many instances of being on God’s Time.  Even though it’s been over 15 years, I can tell you so many stories.  There’s “Rebecca” time when I plan out my whole day in detail, but often things don’t go according to Rebecca Time.  At the end of the day, I see that God was in charge of my day…that my day worked according to what God needed me to do.

On Tuesday, I had a St. Agnes’ House Board meeting and so I wore business clerical dress.  I had a hair appointment that afternoon and in the morning, I thought I’d change into my jeans and a t-shirt for the hairdresser appointment.  Well, I was so busy, that I never did change.  I was annoyed when I reached the hairdresser and still had my collar on, because it’s not easy to store the collar and studs and keep track of them.

But while I was at the hairdresser, I received some text messages from Donna Goff that Tanya Goff’s father (Tony Rhodus) had been transferred to the hospital here in Lexington and would I please go visit.  Some people might say it was just a coincidence that I didn’t change my clothes, but you see, I believe that God knew what I needed to do that day.  I was on God’s time and had to laugh at how annoyed I was that I hadn’t changed clothes.  Yes, even after all of these years of clearly seeing God at work guiding my feet, I still forget and try to operate on Rebecca time….

Blessings as you finish your week.  I’m so excited for Chocolate Fest!  Hope to see you there — Saturday, 9am – 3pm. And please continue to pray for Tony Rhodus and his family during this difficult time.

Love, Rebecca

Rebecca’s Schedule
Next week, I will be in Corbin on Thursday, December 12,  and my Sabbath day will be Friday, December 13.  Please feel free to contact me any time, however, by calling 859 -429-1659 or priest-in-charge@stjohnscorbin.org.

Adult Forum:  This Sunday we begin our series on end-of-life issues.  Chaplain Alice Tremaine from the Mountain Group of Hospice of the Bluegrass will speak about end-of-life and grief issues.

Lazarus at the Gate, an 8-week series on economic discipleship, will begin at the Adult Forum on Sunday January 5.  If you are willing to lead a session, please let Rebecca know.  The series can be accessed online at http://www.bostonfaithjustice.org/#/discipleship

 Godly Play:  There will be Godly Play classes this Sunday.  If you are interested in assisting with these classes on an occasional basis, please let Anne Day Davis or Dura Anne Price know.  You will observe the classes for 4 sessions and once you have received this training, you may be called upon to assist as you are available.  Let the children deepen your faith!

Christmas Dinner at the Barn, Wednesday, December 25, 2-4pm.  If you’d like to attend this community dinner, please see Paula Bain or June Sullivan.

Please prayerfully consider how you will financially contribute to the work of St. John’s Church in 2014.  Complete a pledge card today and place it in the offering plate to assist with our planning for the church’s work in 2014

This Week at St. John’s

Saturday, December 7
9am – 3pm – Chocolate Fest!

Sunday, December 8
10am – Adult Forum – End-of-Life Issues
11am – Eucharist
Noon – Vestry Meeting

Wednesday, December 11:
6pm Worship – Our Lady of Guadalupe

Sunday, December 15
10am – Godly Play and Adult Forum (End-of-Life issues)
11am – Eucharist – Third Sunday of Advent

Serving Our Neighbors – See baskets in the parlor.

  • Everlasting Arms, Corbin’s shelter for people who are homeless is in need of men’s razors, deodorant and socks.
  • The Food Pantry at Corbin Presbyterian Church is always in need of nonperishable food items.  Vegetables are especially appreciated.

Flowers for Christmas: Donations for flowers to decorate for Christmas are being received until December 22.  Please place your donation in the envelope, marking whether they are in honor of or in memory of someone. 

 

 Schedule of Services for Christmas Eve, Christmas and New Year’s Day
 Tuesday, December 24:
7:00pm – Family Eucharist
11:00pm – Midnight Eucharist

Wedneday, December 25
9:00am – Morning Prayer
No Wednesday Evening Service

Sunday, December 29
10:00am – No Adult Formation
11:00am – Christmas Lessons and Carols or Morning Prayer

Wednesday, January 1
6pm – Wednesday worship

 United Thank Offering (UTO) is a ministry of the Episcopal Church for the mission of the whole church. Through United Thank Offering, men, women, and children nurture the habit of giving daily thanks to God. These prayers of thanksgiving start when we recognize and name our many daily blessings. Those who participate in UTO discover that thankfulness leads to generosity. United Thank Offering is entrusted to promote thank offerings, to receive the offerings, and to distribute the UTO monies to support mission and ministry throughout the Episcopal Church and in invited Provinces of the Anglican Communion in the developing world.

Your UTO offerings are collected twice each year.  Each time you feel thankful during your day, put some change into your box.  We will gather these gifts of gratitude in May and begin again for the November offering.

If you need a UTO box, please see Rebecca. 

 

 Reimagine the Episcopal Church:  In 2012, the General Convention created a taskforce to reimagine The Episcopal Church for the future. The members of the Taskforce want to hear the memories, hopes and dreams that people have for The Church. We are trying to reach as many people as we can over the next few months. We will use what we hear to help us shape recommendations for The Church’s structure, administration and governance. To add your memories, go online at http://reimaginetec.org/ or see Rev. Rebecca for a paper copy you can submit.  Deadline is March 4, 2014. 

Hymn Selection Group If you’d like to choose hymns for services, join this group.  You will choose hymns for an upcoming service and then meet with the entire group to confirm the final selections.  See Billy Hibbitts if you are interested. 

Would you like to write Prayers of the People?  If you are interested in writing these prayers (there are resources that can help with this task), please let Rebecca know by phone or email priest-in-charge@stjohnscorbin.org.

Are you interested in assisting with the Sunday service?  Readers, Eucharistic Ministers, Crucifers, Altar Guild Members and choir members are all important for each Sunday service.  If you’re interested in serving, please let Rebecca know by phone 859-429-1659 or priest-in-charge@stjohnscorbin.org.

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Wake up and Prepare for the Life that Delights (Sermon)

Sermon – St. John’s Episcopal Church, Corbin
The Rev. Rebecca S. Myers
Sunday, December 1, 2013
Year A First Sunday of Advent

 You know what time it is, how it is now the moment for you to wake from sleep.  Romans 13:11

 Therefore you also must be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an unexpected hour. Matthew 24:44

Please be seated. 

I was a Girl Scout.  Be prepared was our motto.  But I know I’m not always prepared.  I’m grateful for having attended a workshop on emergency preparedness and receiving this amazing preparedness kit that included work gloves, food, a space blanket, a transistor radio and band aids.   It’s something I wouldn’t have gone out to buy for myself.  And it sure did come in handy and provide me with some comfort during Superstorm Sandy in New York City last year when we were without electricity for nearly a week.

When I was a child, it was passages like our Gospel today that frightened me. I heard, “You need to get right with God.” It was like the familiar song we hear this time of year, “You better watch out.  You better not cry.  You better not pout, I’m telling you why.  Santa Claus is coming to town.”  Or the new rage of the “Elf on the Shelf” who watches the children and reports back to Santa.  It’s like our default setting is to do the wrong thing and only the image of the impending arrival of the judging Jesus Christ will keep us on the right path. 

Okay, I’m sure a reminder is important and helpful.  Yet, I’d like to expand our thinking about the message of our readings today.

We need to be awake, because Jesus is coming, whispering in our ear, calling us to do Jesus’ work.  We need to be prepared, because answering Jesus, following Jesus can lead us to places we never imagined.

A number of years ago, a social work colleague of mine, Betsy, was selected to be the Executive Director of the National Association of Social Workers in Washington, DC.  She had served as the Executive Director of the New York State Chapter and I was the Executive Director of the Pennsylvania Chapter.  We’d call each other regularly to talk about the issues we faced in these positions  I was excited that she was selected to head the national organization  I appreciated her vision for the Association.  One day I said to another colleague that I’d love to work with Betsy, but I really didn’t want to move to DC.  Five years later, after quite a process of listening to and following God’s leading, I ended up in DC working for her.

What an amazing time it was.  Things I’d never dreamed of or put on my “bucket list” happened and they were great fun.  I wrote a grant for a project in Hungary and was able to visit the country.  I was a co-leader of a social work trip to South Africa.  I presented at an international conference in Hong Kong.  I was at meetings at the White House and attended the Democratic National Convention in 2008  I learned I could be a speech writer.  I was encouraged to write more and co-wrote a number of scholarly pieces that were published  These were just a few of the experiences I had.

And in that move to a new place, I became alert enough to God’s voice that I heard the call to the priesthood. 

If I had not been awake to God’s calling… to God’s voice…to following Jesus, I never would have had those experiences in my life.  Those experiences that delighted me and yet were not even in my vision for myself

Yes, we need to wake up.  Not just because we may be headed in the wrong direction, facing severe judgment, but we also need to be prepared to hear God’s voice, to follow Jesus, so we can do the work God needs us to do…so we can live the life God knows will delight us and God

Today we are in the New Year. A time to make resolutions.  A time to take stock of ourselves.

What are we doing to wake from our sleep?  For instance, are we doing things that make our heart sing, either because they delight us or because they allow us the ability to delight others?

Where are we afraid and how can we address our fears?  Is there something we need to do so our fear is lessened…maybe some preparation we need to do?

For instance, many of us fear our own deaths.  But the truth is, we are not guaranteed any number of days.  The next 3 weeks at Adult Forum we will be looking at some of the issues around end-of-life.  These sessions might help us be prepared for our own deaths.  The information may help lessen our fear.

Sometimes we are afraid of something we are being called to do.  I know some of you are being called to be readers or Lay Eucharistic Ministers and you may be afraid, thinking you could never do anything like that.  Sometimes we need to go towards our fears and we can take little steps.  For instance, you could ask someone who is a reader what is involved or you could figure out what frightens you about reading in church.

Sometimes people help us wake up.  Have you ever had the experience of people telling you to read a book and you hear it from different people in different places over a period time?  Or a friend tells you you are good at a particular task, something you’d never realized about yourself before?  Sometimes other people close to us or complete strangers are messengers from God. 

Of course there are the tried and true ways of writing in a journal; frequent reading of the Bible; and most importantly prayer.  Many spiritual disciplines are available for use.  Maybe it’s time to try a new one or deepen one you’ve been doing. 

Just the other day, I realized there was a wonder and joy in the anticipation of Christmas as a child.  I wasn’t distracted by buying the perfect present or planning the Christmas meal or the many stresses we feel as adults this time of year.

One of the exciting things that happened was the visit from my grandparents, my mother’s parents.  They took the all-day, 300 mile journey on the Greyhound bus.  Grandpa always arrived with a small blue satchel.  Inside it was the best tasting Italian sweet sausage and at least one octopus.  My grandfather would freeze these items so they’d be okay during the journey and promptly put them in the freezer when he arrived.  There was the hottest pepperoni and the sharpest provolone cheese, that made your tongue itch.

Prior to their arrival, we’d make the trip to get some Italian bread for about a day; also to purchase the special flour my grandfather needed to make Italian bread for the rest of their stay.  We’d buy the Zinfandel wine my grandmother drank with her dinner and the whiskey my grandfather had after supper to “cook his food.”  I did not have to plan these things…merely participate in them.  They were the signs that my grandparents were visiting.  They were the preparations we made for my grandparent’s visit.  They were preparations made out of love and the anticipation of the joy of being together.  I’d get so excited, I could barely sleep.

“O Come, O Come Emmanuel” we will sing each Sunday during Advent.  Emmanuel – God With Us.  Just like my family prepared for my grandparents visit every Christmas, what do you need to do to prepare for Christ’s coming?  What do you need to do to hear God’s calling?  What do you need to do to prepare with the excitement of a child?

Awake.  Focus on the important things.  Prepare with love. Prepare with wonder.   Anticipate the joy of being together with Christ.  “You know what time it is, how it is now the moment for you to wake from sleep.  Therefore you also must be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an unexpected hour.”

Amen